you have your love by the touch of
their hand. together you take your seat in a movie theater. around you are
others going on about their business. all the people are talking amongst
themselves and disrupting you. the lights are out. the room is dark.
there is no four star ebert and roeper flick about to take two. when the
reel starts rolling the only thing seen as it projects onto the screen are
eight letters, three words, and one meaning.
this is what is going on 365:24:7 in a
relationship. the movie theater is this life we are in. from where you and
your love sit, is your view upon the world. the only thing that matters in
a loving relationship is love. it is the almighty and a necessity for a
relationship, given to us by the one and only GOD. and the words "i love
you" are all that can be seen on the screen. love will help you take on
anything that you will encounter in your relationship. that is the movie
you are there to see and that is the goal you must stay focused on at all
times. the other people around you in the theater are just distractions.
they are people and their lives do matter, but not when it comes to the
relationship you have with the person you love. as the people are talking
amongst themselves, they are getting in the way as you try to stay glued to
the screen. in this life, that is something that happens all the time.
people always try to get involved with your relationship and tell you what
is right and wrong, what to do, and where to go. i am here to tell you that
no one has the answers for your relationship but you and the person you are
the big picture. a birds eye view.
staring at that screen with those words on it is as big as the picture is
ever gonna get. it becomes no more simpler than that. the bottom line for
any type of relationship is to give and receive love. the rest are just
details. all the daily activities that change our moods, cause fights, and
cause people to disagree can be seen as insignificant with the big picture
in mind. anything and everything can be worked out as long as love is used
to approach the situation. but only a true love can hold the maturity
needed to do such a thing, day in and day out.
so what is love? i don't think anyone
will truly know or experience unconditional love until stepping through the
gates of HEAVEN. but what is it suppose to be and how can we do it the best
we can? teamwork is the answer. teamwork, just like basketball players
lace up before a game, is the best way to do it. as a team, you treat each
other as equals, are fair, and communicate to both of you win in every
in life we sometimes get caught up in
the details. but when you step back and look at your life, what is your big